A Friend’s Strange Path to Fatherhood

9 Jun

One of my college friends has been working in I-banking in NYC for years.  Several years older than myself, I got a chance to catch up with him yesterday.

Me: “Hey, how are things?”

Him: “Pretty good.  I have some big news.”

Me: “Really?  What?”

Him: “I’m going to be a daddy!”

This is the same guy who I once told the only chance for him to reproduce is through asexual cell division.  He agreed with me.  

Me: “I didn’t know you were dating or had met anyone…”  [I’m a mid-western kid who still believes you should get married to have children; a bad schema to bring to the table for this sort of conversation.]

Him: “Well, you know that hooker I’ve been paying for like five years?”

Me: “I know you bang hookers.  I didn’t know it was the same one.”

Him: “Yup.  Same one.  This relationship is longer than any of the ones you’ve had.”

Me: “I’ll give you that one.  It might have even been emotionally healthier if, y’know, she wasn’t doing that with other guys.”

Him: “Well, she told me she was pregnant and it was mine.”

Me: “Did you get a blood test?”

Him: “Yeah, I did.  It’s mine!  I’m actually excited to be a dad.  I’m going to be a daddy!”

Me: “How far along is she?”

Him: “She’s in her third trimester.”

Me: “The sex?”

Him: “A girl.”

Me: “So, to summarize, you are having a daughter with a high-class hooker.”


Him: “Yeah, that’s a good summary.”

Me: “Did you get tested for STDs as well?”

Him: “I always wear protection.  I was surprised to learn she got pregnant.  I guess I shouldn’t have used the condoms she gave me.  At first, I didn’t understand how this happened.”

Me: “The biology of it…” 

Him: “Well, I know she set me up.  She want’s a sugar daddy.  But, I get along better with her than anyone else.”

Me: “What did you tell your Mom?”

Him: “The truth: I knocked up a hooker.  I told her after she watched Pretty Women.”

Me: “How’d she take it?”

Him: “I’m an only child.  She’s excited to be a grandmother.  Remember when you met her?  And, you repeated the joke about me only reproducing through asexual cell division?”

Me: “No, I don’t.  But, it sounds like something I’d say.”

Him: “Yeah, well, that framed it for her to lower her expectations.  She’s out shopping with her for baby clothes right now.”


Me: “Are you going to marry her?”

Him: “I think so.  I’m more comfortable around her than anyone else.  A lot of times we talked before we did it.”

Me: “A lot of times?  What about the other times?”

Him: “That was in our previous relationship…y’know, when I first hired her.”

Me: “You do realize hookers who have been active in this profession for years don’t just get knocked up?”

Him: “Yeah, but I’m okay with it.  Besides, I’m starting to find babies cute.”

Me: “Is she still going to hook after the kid shows up?”

Him: “No, she’s working on becoming a rep for medicine.  She has a lot of contacts in the doctor world.”

Me: “…I have to ask: how?”

Him: “A lot of her clients are physicians.  We laugh about how she is still a hooker, but in a less honest profession!”

Me: “Well, you are VP [Vice-President], you make good money, you’re having a kid, and the women you are having it with is working.  Sounds like a dream.”

Him: “I know.  I feel like the luckiest guy on the planet.”


Him: “The best part about this is you introduced us!”

Me: “How so?”  

Him: “Well, when we were living on 52nd street…” [We lived in the same building: it was mixed housing NYU rented out because they ran out of dorm room.  It was a combination of non-NYU students and students.  One of my neighbors was a widower in his 70s; he came to our parties and we watched sports together.]  “And, you asked her out not knowing what she did for a living?  You went on that date and you got pissed…”

Let the record show I never slept with her, kissed her, or did anything with her after she told me what she did for a living.

Me: “Thank you for bringing up one of my more humiliating stories which serves as evidence that I’m stupid.”

Him: “Well, that’s how I met her!  Through you!  And, if hadn’t been your joke about asexual cell division, this would have never happened.  I would have never introduced myself!  After you told me that, we got drunk, I went to her door, and we talked.  It took a couple of years for me to get the courage to ask her out…”

Me: “You mean “hire” her.”

Him: “Yup.  Without you, none of this would have happened!”


Me: “So, basically, my function is as a mack-Daddy who introduced her to her sugar-Daddy?”

Him: “I guess you are just a cupid getting people together!”

Me: “So, she’s the one?”

Him: “I think so.  I don’t have a problem kissing her on the mouth!”

After having this conversation, I called up another NYU friend to make sure he isn’t insane.  She said, “Oh, you didn’t know that?”

On a completely unrelated note, I’ve decided to start volunteering my time to help people.  I’m thinking of the Denver Dumb Friends League.  Does anyone know of any other good organizations?

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